the cycle of life

Way is that no matter how much thing change that they seem to stay the same . I sometime think if this one thing in my life would change things would turn out different , but seem like when one issue get cleared up there is another issue ... There always a issue and seem that with some people they keep having the same issue from year to year. I guest there something that I just cant understand but I keep trying to understand because that all I can do . I am glad that i have 2 friend that I can tell anything and that never judge and help me to get by in this thing called life